Conversational Evangelism

Obstacles to Evangelism Today

Evangelism in the 70’s in the West

The Challenges of Evangelism Today in the West and East

The Problems in
Evangelism Today
But not only is there a rejection of moral absolutes, a deep skepticism, and an indifference towards the truth, there is also an intolerance towards those who claim to know the truth!

The Intolerance Toward Truth

Key Question

Understanding the
Times We Live In!
We need to be like the men of Issachar and understand the times in which we live and therefore know what we should do.
See I Chronicles 12:32

Understanding the Times We Live in Compels us…
To clarify what we commonly mean by evangelism

Remember,
Evangelism is a Process
“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.”
1 Corinthians 3: 6

Clarifying Definition
of Evangelism
“Every day and in every way helping our non-Christian friends to take one step closer to Jesus Christ.”
Dave Geisler

Understanding the Times We Live in Compels us…
To allow others to discover the truth for themselves by asking them probing questions about what they say they believe!

Why Not Just
Proclaim the Truth?
“We live in a world where people are reluctant to be told what is true, but are willing in some cases to see for themselves (as in a mirror) the inconsistencies in what they believe.”

Dave Geisler

The Need For Probing Questions?

Some people may respond
better in our witness by
using an indirect approach!

More to the process…
If evangelism is a process, and we have been alluding to the need to approach sharing the gospel in a new way, what is this new element to evangelism?

Pre-Evangelism!
If Evangelism is planting seeds of the Gospel, pre-evangelism is tilling the soil of their mind and heart, preparing them to at least be willing to listen to the Truth.
  (Mark 2:22; 4:8)

The Vital Role Of The
Holy Spirit In Evangelism

What do we want to
trust the Holy Spirit to do?

Trust not in Yourself

Conversational Evangelism
Four types of conversations we want to have with not-yet believers

Four types of roles you need to
play in your friend’s life?

Hear what they are saying!

Learn how to be a better listener
James 1:19-20
19 My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.

Really hear what people are saying to us!

Hear the Sour Notes
People are Singing to us!

Absolutely!

What You Might Hear

Belief vs. Behavior

Belief vs. Behavior
Talking to a Buddhist:
If one of the goals of Buddhism is the elimination of desire, is it really possible for human beings to really live without emotion or desire?
(conversation with Buddhist auto-mechanic)

Belief vs. Behavior
I don’t think that religion is really necessary.
B. Sometimes I pray but I don’t feel anything.

What You Might Hear

Belief vs. Belief

Show That They Cannot Hold Conflicting Views!
A. Jesus is my Savior
B. I can measure up
A. The Bible is reliable
B. I must do good works to be saved
(Ephesians 2:8-9: Titus 3:5)

Show That They Cannot
Hold Conflicting Views!
A. I’m a Christian
B. I’m not quite sure why Jesus had to die on the cross.

What You Might Hear (Review)

Absolutely!

Unmeaningful Statements?
More Examples:

Don’t forget to really listen?

Illuminate Discrepancies

Is There a Problem?

As an artist you want to
paint a picture by asking questions

Asking questions helps
paint a picture to help them
see themselves more clearly

The Importance of Asking Questions
Questions that uncover the meaning of certain unclear terms

Asking  Questions
In  A Way That…
minimizes their defensiveness and yet creates a curiosity to want to hear more!

The Importance of Asking Questions
Questions that uncover the meaning of certain unclear terms

"Savior"
Savior
Good
Died for us
Free Thinker

The Importance of Questions
Questions that help uncover the meaning of certain unclear terms

Begin With  Asking Probing Questions That Surface the Uncertainty in Their Beliefs

Introductory Questions To Explore the Uncertainties of their Beliefs
Do you really think it really matters what we believe or is the important thing we have some kind of religion to make us a better person?
Do you think that all religious beliefs basically teach the same thing?
Do you think that all people will be held accountable for the way they live?
4. If so what do you think the standard will be?

Introductory Questions To Explore the Uncertainties of their Beliefs
Why must you pray to the goddess of mercy to receive mercy and then the god of wealth to be blessed with material wealth?
Isn’t the goddess of mercy merciful enough to grant one who is in poverty some sort of material wealth?
Why isn’t one God sufficient?
Isn’t god suppose to be all mighty and powerful? If that is the case isn’t it redundant to have so many gods?
How do you know that when you are reincarnated that you will come back as a human?
How do you know that you are good enough to be  a human in the next life?

Follow-up Questions That Can Expose False Concepts
for all religions to be the same when some of them contradict each other’s key beliefs?
for the Bible to be rejected as reliable when other historical documents are accepted?

Follow-up Questions That Can Expose False Concepts
How is it possible for there to be more than one God?

The Right Questions Can Help Them Better Face The Truth!

Lets Try It!

Lets Try It! (cont.)

Jesus’ use of questions
in Luke 20:41-44

"Confucius said"
Confucius said, “Man is born with uprightness”
Wing-Tsit Chan “A Source Book in Chinese Philosophy. Princeton, N.J.; Princeton Univ. Press, 1963, p. 29

"The Apostle Paul"
The Apostle Paul, who was perhaps one of the greatest Christians who ever lived, said himself,
“I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.” Romans 7:18

"If Desire is the source..."
If Desire is the source of all suffering, how do we desire to stop desiring?
Jesus taught that the issue is not giving up desire, but having right desire (Matt 5:6).

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"Matthew 8:2 – Leper"
Matthew 8:2 – Leper
Matthew 28:9 – women at the tomb
Matthew 14:33 – the disciples
Matthew 28:17; Luke 24:52 – the disciples after Jesus rose
John 9:38 – a blind man
John 20:28-29 – Thomas called him “My Lord and My God”
Matthew 2:2 – God sent wise men to worship Jesus, and wise men today worship him too.

"The Qur’an itself considers the..."
The Qur’an itself considers the previous revelations contained in “the book” to be authoritative and authentic revelations from God (Surah 2:136; 4:163)
The Qur’an states that “None can change His word.” (Surah 6:115; see also 6:34; 10:64)

Why Asking Questions Is So Helpful
“A person can close his ears to facts he does not want to hear, but if a pointed question causes him to form the answer in his own mind, he cannot escape the conclusion—because it’s a conclusion that he reached himself.”
David Reed Baker, Jehovah’s Witnesses Answered Verse by Verse, (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1986) p. 113

Uncover Their Barriers

As an archeologists uncover the
real barriers to the Gospel?

Uncover the Real Barriers

Is The Barrier Real?
Determine whether their issue is a legitimate concern or whether it is a smoke screen.

A Formula For Clearing
Away Smokescreens
   “If I could answer your questions in a way that would make sense to you, would that help you to more seriously consider a belief in God and Christianity?
   “What kind of evidence are you looking for?”

Determine the Nature
of the Barrier

Uncover The Specific Emotional Baggage That They Are Carrying

Find the Right Balance in Your Approach to Others

What Does it Mean to Find the Right Balance?

Reasoned Differentiation

Speak to Their Heart
Felt Issues

Barriers to Belief in
God and Christianity
   "One of my biggest barriers to belief in God or Christianity is that I am not brave enough to consider religious issues solely without considering the consequences of what other people think."
   International Student, U.T. Austin

Uncovering Barriers
(Review)

Build a Bridge to the Gospel

Build a Bridge to the Gospel

Build a Bridge

Building a Bridge to the Gospel
Find Common Ground with those you are trying to reach

Find Common Ground

Find Common Ground

Building a Bridge to the Gospel
Construct a bridge from point of shared beliefs (Example: Apostle Paul in Acts 17 and 28)

Build Using Planks of Common Understanding

Planks of Common Understanding
Examples:
It maters what you believe!
Not all religious viewpoints can be right!
Faith must have an object to have merit!
Jesus’ claims are unique compared to any other major religious leader!
The proof of Christ’s claim have no parallel among major religious leaders! (I Cor. 15:3-6)
Without God, some people find it difficult to find meaning in life!

No Comparison!

Building a Bridge
“Buddha claimed to point to the way, Muhammad claimed to be a prophet of God, but Jesus Christ is the only major religious leader that ever claimed to be God, who fulfilled prophecy, lived a sinless life, and then died on the cross and rose from the dead.”
Dave Geisler

Compare Jesus to Muhammed

Remember the Goal!
Don’t get so caught up in removing barriers that you forget to remember the goal!

The Goal Is…

Remember The Goal!
Actively seek for opportunities to transition to spiritual things
Example:
“Has anyone ever explained to you the difference between Christianity and all other religions?”
* Explain Do versus Done
(See Contagious Christian Training by Bill Hybels)

Building a Bridge to the Gospel
(Review)
Find common ground with those we are attempting to reach
Construct a bridge using planks of common understanding (1 Cor. 9:22), some of which they may have discovered by this time
Remember the goal: Use this bridge to offer our non-believing friend a path to Christ
(2 Tim. 4:2-5)

Building a Bridge to the Gospel
Interviews with students at U.T. Austin
“The Dialogue”
Remember that we want to hear the discrepancies and illuminate them by asking questions that clarify their terminology and expose the cracks in their foundation.
* This 15 minute video (Building Bridges to the Gospel) may be purchased off of our web site and is contained on our Resource C.D. .

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Slide 96

What kind of role do you need to
play in your friend’s life?

Practice Asking Questions Only
Questions Game

Nice Day
Isn't it a beautiful day?
Why are you asking me?
Aren't you the lifeguard?
Do I look like a lifeguard?
Don't you recognize me?
Should I?
Do you know how to get to home?
Are you questioning my intelligence?
Do you have a car?
Does that answer your question?
Is that a Toyota Camry?
Have you ever seen one floating in the water like that?
Will you take me for a ride?
DON'T YOU KNOW ALL YOU HAD TO DO WAS ASK?

Questions must begin with…
Are you taking the MRT home tonight?
What did you do for mother’s day?
What are you looking forward to this next year?
When are you going shopping?
What do you think of the Casino issue?

Application Exercise
This next week I will:
1. Look for opportunities to ask clarifying questions in my witness to others.
* Ask, what do you mean by…? (Example: Free Thinker)
Actively seek for opportunities to transition to spiritual things. (example: Do verses Done)
3. I will e-mail my Outreach Pastor with the results of this exercise!

Conversational Evangelism
Four types of conversations we want to have with non-believers

Conversational Evangelism